You love it, are in love, or maybe you are not too in love, but you are sure you love it – you do not question your feelings. And you do not expect to re-examine your relationship, it seems completely contrary to your dedication. Even if you wonder in the privacy of your mind, when no one can even read your face, while you are showering, practicing, reading – you feel like a traitor you have such thoughts.
When you reach a certain level of relationship, you do not want to re-examine. You will not wonder if you see yourself in the age beside your partner, so that your parenting will go, whether your values are sufficiently aligned so that you can progress together in the way that relationships are progressing naturally. If you move from a point that is considered unnatural, you know the great differences (age, culture, level of consciousness, education, life goals, and values) and you've reached the place where you are getting all the love – to the feeling that you are deeply connected, But what do you do now – you do not want to question yourself again and doubt it. You may not have to, because you know and predict how it will develop, or not, and maybe you are too afraid that you will lose what you have, that you will reconsider the demons and speed up the end that you do not want
However, if you try to ignore the voice of doubt, that inner cynic (or perhaps just common sense) that requires you to be respected, you go inside. Surprise will eat you the heart, will spend your joy and love will not be left to you – the fear will change.
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